Things That Inspire Me
All things inspirational that motivate us all to be better.
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Blind Quilter - What are your talents?
No excuses anymore. Watch this video and just let it sit with you a while and then let me know what you think.
Sincerely,
Ricky Brandon
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Tribute To American Flag
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
This will make you smile, laugh and maybe cry.Has anybody
Has anybody ever tried to change who you are? Or have you ever felt like you need to be somebody you aren't for someone else?
Somebody won’t accept you for who you are; somebody tried to change you into being the person they wanted you to be for them; somebody judged you for not being what they felt you could be; somebody kicked you aside instead of accepting you for all of the great qualities you have…?
This video is for anybody who has ever had someone not accept him or her for who they are, or… for those of you who have struggled with accepting someone else for who they are… you will smile, laugh and cry!!
Friday, June 11, 2010
Conquer Fear and Escape Failure
Thousands of years ago, when we were competing with Saber-toothed tigers, our fear response made perfect sense.
When threat or danger loomed, our internal systems leaped into action. Our breathing sped up, our hearts pounded, our attention snapped into focus. We were on heightened alert, tingling with anxious anticipation. Everything was seen through the filter of danger, of a potential threat to our survival. (Fight or flight)
As I said, it worked well back in the day. But when our daily threats changed from big cats to the big presentation, the job interview, asking the girl of our dreams out on a date, closing the sale, or launching our own business, the fear response isn't as helpful.
Our Bodies Are Wired For The Past And That Is Keeping Us Average In The Present.
Doing work that matters, following your passions, changing your ways, stepping up and doing the right thing…these can be frightening experiences. As such, they set off your fear responses. Your brain is telling you you’re in danger and so you back down.
You stay right where you are, where your brain thinks it’s safe. Sure, you’re unhappy, stifled, bored, and settling for a sub-par life, but you’re safe. Or so your prehistoric brain thinks.
This is no way to live. Imagine what you could do–would do–if you weren’t afraid (Of the non-threats, of course. If a bear is eating your lunch, be afraid).
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You’d start that business instead of making excuses. You’d pitch your idea instead of researching just one more day. You’d launch that blog you’ve been thinking about instead of talking yourself out of it, once again. You’d be the person you’d look up to instead of fitting in and fading out.The old response is keeping you from the better life that’s just around the corner. Below are a few tips to help put that knee-jerk reaction in check.
1. Give It a Name: The fuzzier it is, the bigger it seems. A vague feeling of dread is like a fog: it expands and surrounds us. The actual issue might be small and unlikely, but as that vague feeling it seems unbearable.
The antidote? Define it. Write down on a sheet of paper the details of what scares you. What, exactly, do you think is going to happen? And why, exactly, does that scare you?
Nine times out of ten, you’ll realize the big fear is actually a small matter. And, just like that, the “threat” will be stripped of its worrisome sting.
2. Reframe It: This is a good one. In his book Iconoclast, author Gregory Burns, M.D., Ph.D., outlines the mind of those men and women who aren’t afraid to do the unexpected, the unfamiliar, the outrageous (and courageous). One of the things that set them apart is how they reframe their bodies response to fear.
The average person feels the butterflies in his stomach and says, “I’m nervous. I’m freaking out. I can’t do this.”
The iconoclast feels the same butterflies and says, “I’m ready.”
They take the same responses and mold them into a different story. They give fear a different meaning. It doesn’t mean danger or a time to back down. The heart beating, the palms sweating mean they are stepping up and doing the right thing. It’s a sign that they’re doing something that matters.
They take the cue and take action.
3. Tire It Out: Studies have shown that our brains can’t stay afraid for an extended period of time. It’s such an intense reaction, it gets tired. So, when you do the thing that scares you, those crazy feelings won’t last forever. You body will adjust. You’ll calm down.
Knowing this in advance, you can tell yourself that you might feel incredibly anxious now, but it won’t last for long.
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Want more help? I stumbled upon this great Web site that I know you’ll love. It’s an online magazine of sorts, all geared toward helping you beat down the fears that keep you paralyzed.
You can get their latest issue FOR FREE here: http://fearlessstories.com/
Have a Magical Day!Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Where the is a Will, There is a way!
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Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Where's the line to see Jesus?
Children truly are angels sent here to teach us adults. Enjoy this video and this Christmas season.
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